They Cannot Measure It. They Will Still Use It to Let You Go.
Vague success criteria, unmeasurable expectations, and subjective performance language are not sloppy management. They are the primary weapon in narrative-based terminations.
The feedback arrived. It did not cite a missed deadline. It did not reference a specific deliverable. It did not point to a metric you fell below.
It said you lacked executive presence. Your communication style was not landing with the team. Your approach was creating friction. Leadership did not feel you were demonstrating the right level of strategic thinking.
None of it can be measured. All of it will be used.
Vague performance language is not a sign of a disorganized manager. It is a deliberate documentation strategy. And by the time most people recognize what they are inside, the record is already built.
WHY UNMEASURABLE CRITERIA EXIST IN YOUR FILE
Objective performance criteria create a problem for employers who have decided to move against an employee. If the criteria are measurable, the employee can meet them. If the employee meets them, the PIP fails. If the PIP fails, the termination is harder to defend.
Subjective criteria solve this problem. If the standard is executive presence or cultural fit or strategic thinking, it cannot be met in a way the employer is required to acknowledge. The evaluation is entirely in the hands of the people who have already decided the outcome. You can demonstrate every behavior they describe and still be told you are not demonstrating it at the required level.
This is not an accident. Subjective evaluation language appears in documentation when the employer needs a reason that is defensible but not falsifiable. It is designed to be resistant to the counter-record you are trying to build.
THE SPECIFIC LANGUAGE TO IDENTIFY
There is a vocabulary that appears consistently in narrative-based terminations. Learning to recognize it is the first step to understanding what the record is being built to say.
Presence language: executive presence, leadership presence, does not command the room. This framing is used frequently against women and employees of color because it is rooted in a subjective standard that reflects whoever is doing the evaluating.
Fit language: not a cultural fit, does not align with our values, the team does not see them as a peer. This language allows an employer to document a conclusion without citing a behavior. There is nothing to dispute because no specific action was named.
Perception language: the perception is that, leadership has concerns about, stakeholders have raised questions about. This insulates the employer from having to own the characterization. The concern belongs to an unnamed third party that cannot be questioned.
Friction language: creates friction, does not collaborate effectively, impacts team morale. This framing takes a behavior and attributes a negative organizational effect to it without documenting the specific behavior, the specific impact, or the specific people affected.
When my client was told her success criteria could not be measured, that was not an oversight. It was the strategy. You cannot hit a target they refuse to define. That is the point.
WHAT THIS LANGUAGE DOES TO YOUR OPTIONS
Subjective evaluation language is particularly damaging because it is difficult to counter without understanding how it functions. Most people respond by working harder, communicating more, or requesting clearer criteria. None of those responses address the actual problem.
Working harder does not change a subjective standard. Communicating more creates more material for the record. Requesting clearer criteria is sometimes useful but the response, criteria that are slightly more specific but still unmeasurable, is itself documentation that the employer attempted to address your concerns.
The counter-strategy is not to meet the subjective criteria. It is to document the absence of objective criteria, identify the pattern of how the language is being applied, and establish whether there is a protected class dimension to who the language is being used against.
Subjective evaluation language does not appear in a vacuum. It appears in specific contexts, against specific people, at specific moments in an employment timeline. That context is the evidence.
WHAT TO BUILD BEFORE THE LANGUAGE BECOMES THE REASON
The subjective evaluation language in your file right now is a preview of the termination narrative. It will become the stated reason unless the record you build changes what is available to use against you.
Start with the paper trail on the criteria themselves. When were the subjective expectations introduced. Were they present in your original job description. Were they introduced after a protected activity. Were they applied to you and not to comparable employees in similar roles.
Document the specifics of every piece of subjective feedback. Who said it. When. In what context. What specific behavior or incident it was attached to, if any. The absence of specific behavior in a piece of negative feedback is itself documented evidence that the feedback is narrative rather than performance-based.
And document your actual performance. The deliverables. The outcomes. The metrics that do exist, even if they were not the ones being emphasized. The record of what you actually did sits alongside the record of what they said about you. Both of those records go into the room when decisions are made.
They cannot measure it. That does not mean you cannot document it.
If the feedback you are receiving cannot be measured, you are already inside a narrative termination strategy.
Noël HR Armor | Strategic Case Architect
You file. I architect.
This communication is for strategic planning purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. All engagements handled in strict confidence.


